A dementia care plan should not be a beautiful PDF that nobody opens. It should be the thing your family can actually use when someone asks, "What changed?"
Use this as a working checklist. If a section is blank, that is not a failure. It is a signal that you know what to gather next.
1. Diagnosis and current stage
- Dementia type, if known
- Date of diagnosis and who made it
- Current stage or functional level, if the doctor has described it
- Testing completed: cognitive testing, labs, MRI/CT, PET, medication review, sleep or depression screening
- What the family has noticed in plain language
2. Provider list
- Primary care
- Neurology or memory clinic
- Psychiatry, geriatrics, therapy, home health, or social work
- Pharmacy and preferred hospital
- Emergency contacts and family decision-makers
3. Medication list
For each medication, write down the dose, purpose, prescribing doctor, when it started, side effects to watch for, and who manages refills. Include over-the-counter medicines and supplements. Dementia care gets risky when a medication change is remembered by one person but not visible to the rest of the family.
4. Behavior and symptom tracker
Track the changes that would matter to a clinician: wandering, agitation, sleep changes, hallucinations, delusions, falls, appetite changes, confusion, repetition, depression, anxiety, pain, incontinence, or a sudden decline. Sudden changes can sometimes mean infection, medication side effects, dehydration, pain, or another medical issue that needs attention.
5. Safety plan
- Driving status and who decides when it changes
- Stove, appliance, firearm, and tool access
- Medication access and pill organization
- Fall risk, stairs, bathroom safety, and mobility aids
- Wandering risk, door alarms, ID bracelet, or GPS plan
- Financial access and scam vulnerability
6. Daily routine and care preferences
Write down meals, sleep habits, hygiene support, mobility, communication tips, calming strategies, triggers, favorite activities, transportation needs, and what a good day looks like. This is especially useful when a new caregiver, adult day program, or respite provider gets involved.
7. Legal, financial, and insurance access
Confirm where the power of attorney, health care proxy, advance directive, insurance cards, Medicare/Medicaid information, pharmacy benefits, long-term care policy, and bill access live. Families should do this while the person can still participate as much as possible.
8. Next actions
End every update with a short list: call neurology, refill medication, ask about home safety, compare respite options, upload the hospital discharge summary, schedule follow-up, check insurance, or ask siblings to take a specific shift.
Sources
- Alzheimer's Association: Caregiver Support — Caregiver support, stages, daily care, safety, in-home care, legal planning, and local resources.
- Alzheimer's Association: Stages and Behaviors — Behavior and caregiving needs change as Alzheimer's and related dementias progress.
- Administration for Community Living: National Family Caregiver Support Program — Federal caregiver support program covering caregiver information, access assistance, counseling, training, respite care, and supplemental services.
- Medicare.gov: Durable Medical Equipment Coverage — Medicare's DME definition and examples including canes, walkers, wheelchairs, CPAP, glucose monitors, and hospital beds.